Divorce & Family Law FAQs

What is a “Collaborative Divorce”?

In North Carolina, a Collaborative Divorce is not exactly the same thing as an amicable divorce. A Collaborative Law proceeding is a creation of the North Carolina legislature, codified in Article 4 of the Divorce and Alimony chapter of the North Carolina General...

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Is my spouse entitled to a certain amount of alimony based on how long we have been married and our income? Is an award of indefinite alimony likely? Is there an alimony calculator like there is a child support calculator?

Although the court will consider income and the duration of the marriage—among other factors—in determining the amount, duration, and manner of alimony, the actual amount awarded is within the judge’s discretion.  There is no alimony calculator.  Alimony is usually...

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How will our assets be valued?

Marital assets are valued as of the date of separation.  For high-value items like homes, real property, works of art, jewelry, or a business, it is best to get an appraisal of the property as of the date of separation.  Of course, you and your spouse can agree to use...

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I received a gift of $50,000 from my parents during the marriage. The gift was intended to be to me alone—not to me and my spouse. The $50,000 has remained in an interest-bearing bank account since the time I received it. Is my spouse entitled to half of the value of this gift?

No. This is another example of separate property.  Property acquired by a spouse during marriage by gift is considered separate property.   Unlike marital property, separate property is not subject to equitable distribution.

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Will my spouse get half of everything I own?

That depends on how the property is classified. In North Carolina, there are three categories of property—marital property, separate property, and divisible property.  Some assets may be mixed; for example, it is common for a retirement account to be both separate and...

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